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4 Lessons from the Greatest Generation in a Time of Fear

It feels like a time of fear. It feels like we are on the edge of more war, more conflict, more battles, more farewells, more hurt, more pain more … terror.

Last month, as news of the Paris terrorist attacks came in and the horrifying details emerged, many of us were glued to the news. Once we’d started processing the devastation, the inevitable questions started to arise: how would this affect our military, our families and our lives?

Although it may have felt all-consuming to many of us, the fact remains that Kylie Jenner’s low cut top and Starbucks’ controversial red cup were the trending stories on social media while Paris burned — evidence of a modern society indifferent to the plight of the world.

Yet, 75 years ago, on December 29, citizens across the country were united as they gathered around radios in their family rooms, listening to President Franklin D. Roosevelt’s Fireside Chat 16: “The Arsenal of Democracy.” The nation hung on his every word as the president detailed the threat of war and his faith that the country would pull through; it was a unifying speech aimed at clarifying their commitment to national security.What can we learn from the Greatest Generation in a time of fear?

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Deployment Solace from an Earlier Generation of Military Spouses

An installment in the New York Times Deployment Diary

When my husband, a Navy helicopter pilot, deployed a little over a month ago, I drove our two children home in relative silence, wondering how we would handle the better part of the next year. I found my answer — my solace — in an unlikely place: love letters that aren’t mine.

The author's maternal grandparents, with her mother as an infant.

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